The Best Sex Toys for Every Body

SEX TECH HAS COME A LONG WAY IN THE PAST 10 YEARS, not only in terms cultural acceptance and awareness, but also in terms of technology. The days of the clunky pink plastic rabbit vibrations and sex toy that felt like knockoff action figure replicas are gone. Toys are now designed by medical professionals, sex educators and some of the best sexperts in the world. These toys feature medical-grade silicone of the highest quality, Bluetooth connectivity that is robust, programmable vibrating patterns, multiple motors, and ultra-premium features.

It’s never too late to invest in some extra self-care. We’ve tested and selected the best sex toy, vibrator, smart vibrator, personal wand masseuse, and accessories. Everyone, of every gender and body, will find something to enjoy. These products are not always gender inclusive in their language, but our testing was gender inclusive, using a wide range of genitals and bodies.

Check out our other guides on bedroom products, such as The Best Vibrators The Best Lubricants The Best Mattresses and the Best Sound Machines.

February 2024 Update: We have added a section about sex toys materials. We also updated the language used to describe materials.

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• What toys are suitable for my body?Beyond P & VIt’s unhelpful, and I have a lot of feelings about it. It’s not helpful, and I have a lot of feelings about this . We choose to be as precise as possible by using anatomical terminology to describe each erogenous zone–and there is way more than just P or V.The vagina is made up of the vulva . 

• The labia maja and labia mnima are included, as is the urethra. It’s the center of the vulva’s erogenous nervous system, and is much bigger than the outer portion. The internal structures of the clitoris extend to both sides of the vagina. This is where the G-spot can be found, the area that’s stimulated by toys curved toward your front.The phallus includes two erogenous areas. The frenulum , which is located on the underside the glans and is often referred to by men as the “head,” is a thin connective tissue strip that is usually found at the top of phallus. The anus, or the butthole, is the last but not the least. The rectum attaches the interior to the anus. These two areas are sensitive to both internal and external stimuli.There’s a second erogenous area for people with phalluses: the prostatic, or Pspot. The walnut-sized gland is located between the internal structures in the penis, the rectum and the external structures of your body. It can be reached with toys that are curved toward the front.

Best Vibrator for Any Body

The saying “you eat with your eye first” is especially relevant to sex products. It’s important for me to like the look and feel of my sex toys. If they’re not pleasing to look at then I won’t want to play with them. Dame’s Dip is a nice looking vibrator, just like the other toys in this company. The vibrator comes in a variety of colors, including a soothing, cool periwinkle, and a robust, ruddy plum. It is sensual to hold, with all the curves and dips. The little peak at the center resembles a vulva. From the side it looks like a little tongue, which is cheeky.

The Dip is an easy toy. It is a quiet, waterproof silicone vibrator. It is a joy in the hand, against your body or to feel inside. The Dip is a toy that has a high level of design and polish.

Best Suction Toy for Most People

The Satisfyer Pro 2 Gen 3 lives up to its name. It’s versatile, powerful, and surprisingly gentle. The whole body of the Gen 3 is covered in soft silicone, so it’s easier to grip than previous versions. The buttons are all conveniently located along the back of the toy, right about where your fingertips naturally fall.

It’s a refined version of a tried and true design, and it feels like it. There’s a level of care and craftsmanship in the build of this toy that I appreciate. The mouth is removable, so you can wash it or swap it with the new “liquid air” mouth—it simulates a tapping sensation more than a sucking or air pulse sensation, which is a fun change of pace. The Gen 3 also features built-in vibration functionality. The third button on the toy cycles through vibration patterns that can heighten things when you’re in the thick of it.